Monday, June 7, 2010

a close up


a close up, originally uploaded by palmistw.

I like the way my camera sees me :-)

Flickr

This is a test post from flickr, a fancy photo sharing thing.

Saturday, February 13, 2010

How to stay motivated!

How to stay motivated!

Motivation - Get Motivated and Stay Motivated

Getting motivated to accomplish a goal may be easy, but it is staying motivated that we often find difficult. Staying on task, or motivated to reach a goal can be a long process and can be frustrating if you do not take the time to accomplish the short-term goals first. When you have a goal, no matter what it is, you can take steps to ensure that after you get motivated, you stay motivated.

Most people set certain goals for themselves. Maybe it is to get in better shape or maybe it is to go back to school. Whatever goal or dream you have, motivation is sometimes hard to come by. Motivation takes not only hard work, but it also takes dedication, willingness, and drive. Many people start out strong when they want to accomplish a goal, but soon find that it is not always easy to stick to the task.

Since everyone is motivated by something different, it will be important to find what it is that motivates you personally. For some people, who are motivated from within, motivation comes from that inner voice that pushes them to work harder and do better. Others need outside factors to push them to their goals. For those people, there are things that can be done to get motivated and to stay motivated no matter what goal you are working towards.

One thing that can help keep you motivated or can get in the way of keeping you motivated is just life. If you are busy, you may tell yourself that you do not have the time or the means to stay motivated. This is especially true for anyone that wants to get in shape or lose weight. We find ourselves making excuses because we are too busy or cannot find the time to exercise or eat right. In addition, we may find that the snack machines at work are just too tempting during the day to turn down. Maybe we find that we are too busy to cook a healthy meal and instead find a fast food drive through. When you think your life is too busy to achieve your goals, you need to take the time to rethink. You can stay motivated if you can reorganize your priorities and your life to reflect your goals and dreams.

Another good way to stay motivated is to find a dedicated partner who is willing to help you through your hardest times. Find someone; whether it is your spouse, friend or neighbor that you can talk to when the times are hard. Maybe you can find a friend that also wants to get in shape or eat better. Work with that person to find a routine that works for the both of you. When you know someone else is depending on you, you will find it is easier to stay motivated to accomplish you goals. Find a partner that shares your willingness and dedication and will work to push you to stay motivated.

You can also stay motivated by hard work. When you see how far you have come when you are working towards your short-term goals, you will see that you can accomplish your goals. This will help you work hard and stay dedicated and motivated. It is not always easy to work hard towards something that is difficult, but when you believe in yourself and work hard it will be easier. When you work hard and see results, others will notice. Those compliments will go far in helping you stay motivated day after day.

Another easy way to get motivated and stay motivated is to use uplifting music during your work. Maybe you are trying to clean your house or walk two miles day. Invest in a good portable music system, such as an MP3 player and fill it with music that will keep you moving. Even when you are not actively working on your goals, good music can help you think about what you want to accomplish and keep you excited about the next day.

When you work hard and dedicate yourself to accomplishing your goals, you will have the ability to stay motivated. Think about your goals and work with a partner, organize your life to accommodate your goals and stay dedicated. Almost any goal can be accomplished when you are motivated.


Staying motivated at work is easier than you think when you know what to do.

1. Decide What You Must Achieve Today.

It is easy to get caught up with non-urgent matters that you can either ignore completely or do at a later date.
All that clutter leaves you confused about what to do so you end up procrastinating.
You need to ask yourself:
What is of the utmost importance that I must complete today?
Define that specific goal and focus solely on that until you have achieved it.
Clarity is power. It allows you to operate in a peak state of concentration and will help to ensure you are at your best. You will be amazed at how much you will get done and how successful you will feel when you FOCUS.

2. Break Down Complex Goals Into Manageable Steps.

One of the biggest mistakes people make is the failure to take big projects and restructure them as a series of challenging but stimulating tasks.
Take any project and list the sequence of steps you need to follow. Make sure the steps are big enough to keep your interest and not so small that you feel bored by the prospect of moving ahead with the project.
It is very motivating to have a highly specific game plan that challenges you without leaving you overwhelmed.
Once you have this blueprint written down you can get started. And make sure to mark your progress with the time of completion as you work your way through the list.
Tracking the time encourages you to make a game of getting things done properly and quickly.

3. Use Negative Pressure To Keep You On Target.

This is an unusual but highly effective tip.
Pick someone at work to check in on your progress during the day. Make sure this person has a positive outlook and that he or she is fully supportive of your goal to achieve more. Choose someone you want to impress with your abilities and productivity.

The secret is to use negative pressure to keep you on track. i.e. you want to dread the prospect of failure because you do not want to lose the approval of this person.
You will have moments during the day when you feel good about the progress you are making. At this point the natural reaction is to ease up.
You can deal with this by setting up the very real prospect of disappointing someone who believes in you. This desire to avoid embarrassment will drive you to give of your best.

Use these three tips each day and watch your productivity soar.
Motivation really is a question of strategy. When you know your personal motivation blueprint there is nothing you cannot do.

Thursday, January 31, 2008

What is True Love

The concept of "True Love" is as hard to define in words as any other mighty concept such as truth, beauty, and even God. This is because you can never see it with your eyes, you can never touch it with your hands, your physical senses fail to perceive it; but you know it exists.

Infatuation or mere attraction involves care for one's own self-interest. You feel attracted to some one who has got something that interests you. So you want to get closer to that person in order to enjoy more and get more pleasure in their company.

The problem is, once you find someone even more interesting, you will naturally feel more attracted to him/her. This is why so many people nowadays don't want to get into marriage and try to live together without any societal bond till they either find true love in that person or find someone better.

True love on the other hand, involves sacrifice of self-interests for the sake of comfort of the one you love. Actually you don't need reciprocity in a relationship to expect LOVE. I mean, it doesn't need two to share the feeling or return mutual feelings of care to each other in order for it to be called "love". That would become trade of interests or feelings (you love me, I love you.... you no longer love me?, we better separate...). A single soul is enough to experience true love. And believe me, one person can share true love with all the living or inanimate things of the universe and still remain single.

Sounds strange? That’s because we have become so accustomed to taking “love” in the same meaning as the act of “lovemaking” which requires a couple. But that’s not true. Remember that true love is not…is never… a trade. Its not “give and take”, its giving without any expectation of taking something back in return. For humans, true love is rare but not impossible. And often times it does get triggered by initial attraction towards someone. But there is a difference of life & death between initial attraction and true love.

Somewhere down the road to attraction there’s a wall of fire (any problem that comes your way). You have to pay a big price in order to get past this wall of fire: “YOUR SELF”. Some people find that they can not afford to pay such a great price. They turn back and try to find some one else.

Very few accept this challenge. The fire burns their whole existence; every impurity, every earthly desire, every self-interest; every thing dirty. What comes out on the other side of the wall of fire is purity and selflessness. The person is the same, but altogether different now. Pure, honest, free, whole! This is the state of true love.

True love is not merely having some good time, its LIVING after sacrificing oneself. Its not mere enjoyment, it is FINDING JOY IN PAIN. Its not like a bed of flowers, its like a burning coal that burns eternally but GIVES OFF SCENT NONETHELESS. Love is the most beautiful of all the human feelings and experiences. It transforms a person and takes him/her to a higher level of existence; a level beyond physical limitations of mortals. True love LIVES forever.

Wednesday, June 6, 2007

Courage




Courage
by Edgar A. Guest


Courage isn't a brilliant dash,
A daring deed in a moment's flash;
It isn't an instantaneous thing
Born of despair with a sudden spring

It isn't a creature of flickered hope
Or the final tug at a slipping rope;
But it's something deep in the soul of man
That is working always to serve some plan.

Courage isn't the last resort
In the work of life or the game of sport;
It isn't a thing that a man can call
At some future time when he's apt to fall;

If he hasn't it now, he will have it not
When the strain is great and the pace is hot.
For who would strive for a distant goal
Must always have courage within his soul.

Courage isn't a dazzling light
That flashes and passes away from sight;
It's a slow, unwavering, ingrained trait
With the patience to work and the strength to wait.

It's part of a man when his skies are blue,
It's part of him when he has work to do.
The brave man never is freed of it.
He has it when there is no need of it.

Courage was never designed for show;
It isn't a thing that can come and go;
It's written in victory and defeat
And every trial a man may meet.

It's part of his hours, his days and his years,
Back of his smiles and behind his tears.
Courage is more than a daring deed:
It's the breath of life and a strong man's creed.

Monday, June 4, 2007

A special SMS

Try this, go to write message in your mobile, activate Dictionary, then hide your screen with one hand and type: 4164771968. Now remove your hand and read it, and see the wonderful thing that happens.

Today's Uinqueness

Its going to be a very special day today on June 5th 2007 at 3 minutes and 4 seconds after 2 am or 2 pm: the time and date will be in a unique position: 02:03:04-05/06/07.
This will never happen again on Earth.